To K- 

I’m going to ask you if you want a key to my apartment. And if you would like to stay with me on 2-4 times a week. Monday night, Thursday night, Friday night. Or something like that. Like a structured partial living together situation. So that we can be together and not be stuck together :) because I want to make our relationship stronger and give it its own space to exist and give it what it needs to thrive. 

Having a schedule to it is important because I want C to have stability. It’s very important for kids. We will have dinner together and I can know ahead of time that I need to plan accordingly. I really need that. I want to be a better mom. And me and you sleeping together is a big part of us being together.

When we break our old worn out patterns that are keeping us small, we change our trajectory and the energy created through that deliberate action creates a ripple effect which radiates out and energizes others to make similar changes towards the light 

Love you 

-n