Felisha

December 18, 2025

Wedding Plan Dec 27th 3pm

đź’Ť WEDDING DAY PLAN

Thank you for your patience. Below is my plan for the wedding day. Please contact David or myself with questions. Rehearsal for Officiant, Musicians, and anyone walking with the bride or groom is Dec 26th at 6pm. Please let me know if you are not available for rehearsal. Talk soon, Felisha 

Felisha Sandifer & David

Friday, December 27
Church Ceremony & Fellowship Hall Celebration

PRIMARY CONTACT

Felisha Sandifer

Text preferred: 918-219-2367
Email: felisha@hey.com

DAY-OF LEADERS

  • Lead Coordinator: Sharyn
  • Assistant Coordinator: Request pending
  • Officiant & Ring Holder: Pastor Brown
  • Bride Escort: Apostle Scott 
  • Elders’ Prayer Song: Apostle Scott


MUSICIANS

  • Pianist: Prophet John
  • Violinist: Sister Mary

QUICK FACTS & CONTACTS

  • Guests arrive: 3:00 PM
  • Ceremony: 3:30 – 4:15 PM (45 minutes)
  • Fellowship Hall: 4:45 – 6:15 PM
  • Departure: 6:30 PM (Uber Black)

FULL DAY TIMELINE
(All times are quarter-hour increments)


1:00 – 2:30 PM

Hair & Makeup

2:30 – 2:45 PM
Travel to church

2:45 – 3:15 PM

Get dressed & final touches at church

3:00 PM

Guests arrive
Pre-ceremony playlist begins
Ushers seat guests front rows first only

CEREMONY | 3:30 – 4:15 PM

  1. Groom & Groomsmen Entrance
  2. Bridal Party Entrance
  3. Bride Entrance (escorted by Apostle Scott)
  4. Opening Prayer – Pastor Brown
  5. Sermon / Marriage Message – Pastor Brown
  6. Unity Candle
  7. Vows (soft background music)
  8. Elders’ Prayer – Without Faith (Andraé Crouch, sung by Apostle Scott)
  9. Exchange of Rings (Pastor Brown)
  10. Pronouncement
  11. Recessional (playlist)

4:15 – 4:30 PM

Bride & Groom greet guests at back doors

4:30 – 4:45 PM
Private time — COUPLE ONLY (elders’ room)

4:45 – 6:15 PM

Fellowship Hall celebration

6:15 – 6:30 PM

Wrap-up & departure prep


CEREMONY MUSIC PLAN

Pre-Ceremony

Recorded playlist (background only)

Groom Entrance

Come Holy Spirit
– Apostle Christine
LIVE piano: Prophet John

Bridal Party Entrance

LIVE piano (Prophet John)
LIVE violin (Sister Mary)

Bride Entrance

LIVE piano + violin
Escort: Apostle Scott

Unity Candle

LIVE piano (very soft)

Vows

Soft background music (very low)

Elders’ Prayer

Without Faith – Andraé Crouch
LIVE vocal: Apostle Scott

Exchange of Rings

No music


RECESSIONAL MUSIC — VERY IMPORTANT

Playlist: “We Are Family” songs (recorded)

Sound Booth Instructions:

  • Start playlist LOW as Pastor Brown prepares to announce
  • When he says:
     â€śI present to you Mr. and Mrs. David and Felicia DeLay”
    → Turn volume UP
  • After the first song finishes → switch back to pre-ceremony playlist at conversational volume

FELLOWSHIP HALL PLAN

  • Couple announced into room
  • First Dance: I Only Have Eyes for You (couple-supplied song)
  • Cake & Punch
  • Mingling, photos, fellowship
  • Background music: couple-supplied playlist

SEATING PLAN

INSIDE-ROW RULE IS MANDATORY

Orientation:

  • Left = Bride’s side
  • Right = Groom’s side
  • Bridal party & groom party sit on INSIDE AISLE SEATS ONLY

LEFT SIDE (BRIDE)

Row 1 — Front Inside Row (Reserved)

  • Sister Lisa
  • Sister Gina
  • Sister Missy (Maid of Honor, when seated)
  • Sister Destiny
  • Sister Gabrielle

Row 2 — Family Row (Reserved)

  • Tish
  • Nesha & baby
  • Charles & Joy
  • Nephews: Christian & David

RIGHT SIDE (GROOM)

Rows 1 & 2 — Fully Reserved (20 seats total)

  • David’s family
  • Groom’s special guests
  • Coworkers

USHER INSTRUCTIONS

Ushers: Brother Jerry & Pastor Sam

  • Seat guests front rows first only
  • Protect all reserved rows
  • Enforce inside-seat rule

Suggested wording:
 â€śThese inside seats are reserved — we’ll seat you just behind them.”


COORDINATOR RESPONSIBILITIES

Lead Coordinator — Sharyn

  • Cue all music transitions
  • Confirm Pastor Brown & musicians
  • Escort couple to elders’ room
  • Protect couple-only private time
  • Cue fellowship hall entrance & first dance
  • Assist with Uber Black booking

Assistant Coordinator - Request Pending
  • Assist Lead Coordinator 

Church Coordinator - Needed

  • Review seating plan with ushers
  • Keep elders’ room private
  • Direct guest flow
  • Collect and give all cash/check gifts to Felisha & David before departure

After-Ceremony Coordinator -
Needed

  • Set up Cake & Punch
  • Manage gift table & QR code
  • Cue first dance
  • Manage playlist volume
  • Begin wrap-up by 6:00 PM


CHECKLISTS

Day Before — December 26

  • Marriage certificate completed & signed
  • Witnesses confirmed
  • Music confirmed
  • Seating lists printed
  • Church decorated
  • Cake arriving 27th early 
  • Gift table & QR code prepared

Morning Of — December 27

  • Eat & hydrate
  • Bring dress, shoes, jewelry
  • Rings given to Pastor Brown
  • Emergency kit with Sister Missy or Sharyn