Last before I start my new job tmr in a new team.
Over 10 years, I have changed many teams/jobs, this time I am not as excited as all previous times. Work for me is becoming a mandatory piece of my life to give me energy, and I really want myself to keep a little bit distance and observe what I am doing this time.
The more I am expecting sth from it, the more I get exhausted and frustrated. Things often happen when you take a step back and let it flow, I just need to give a little bit nudge (value add actions) whenever needed.
That is the same for the life, keep it simple, do not push for it too hard. Relationship, wealth, health, anything will break if you lost your boundaries.
I am also debating if life should have a goal. I am convinced that we should have goals in specific topics, like your yearly deliverable in your work, clearer the goal is, better result it is likely to be. Finance, similarly if you I know exactly how much money I need to save for X, I will work hard to get there. But life? We will all die, one day. I used to trying hard to fine the meaning of life, until I learnt meaning is how I decide to live this very second.
- Am I honest to myself?
- Am I feel healthy?
- Am I content?
Everything else doesn't matter. Wish new year, think clear, dare to act, no judge, accept.
Over 10 years, I have changed many teams/jobs, this time I am not as excited as all previous times. Work for me is becoming a mandatory piece of my life to give me energy, and I really want myself to keep a little bit distance and observe what I am doing this time.
The more I am expecting sth from it, the more I get exhausted and frustrated. Things often happen when you take a step back and let it flow, I just need to give a little bit nudge (value add actions) whenever needed.
That is the same for the life, keep it simple, do not push for it too hard. Relationship, wealth, health, anything will break if you lost your boundaries.
I am also debating if life should have a goal. I am convinced that we should have goals in specific topics, like your yearly deliverable in your work, clearer the goal is, better result it is likely to be. Finance, similarly if you I know exactly how much money I need to save for X, I will work hard to get there. But life? We will all die, one day. I used to trying hard to fine the meaning of life, until I learnt meaning is how I decide to live this very second.
- Am I honest to myself?
- Am I feel healthy?
- Am I content?
Everything else doesn't matter. Wish new year, think clear, dare to act, no judge, accept.
Jing
- Climate change is real
- Gender gap is real
- You have one life
- Climate change is real
- Gender gap is real
- You have one life