Michael He

October 17, 2025

25 Unhelpful Tips

Twenty five random tips that come to my mind as I say bye to my first quarter century. Not in any particular order. 

  1. Negotiate job offers, the recruiter (who are pros) will always rip you off if you don’t fight for yourself 
  2. Automatic savings every paycheck, same with getting your Roth IRA / 401k
  3. Lack of sleep will catch up to you once you hit 20s, big time, you are not the animal you once were
  4. Floss, cavities (or dentures or crowns) can bankrupt people
  5. Find people you can grow with and stay with them in all areas of life 
  6. Make eye contact with people
  7. Have good postures, slouching shoulders are very visible
  8. Learn basic social dancing 
  9. Visit your parents more often
  10. Extension to #5: If you can’t imagine being ____ with someone in ten years, why bother?
  11. Eat more vegetables and less carbs
  12. Manage your attention span
  13. Read books
  14. Get fresh air, go for a walk
  15. Don’t have regrets, but don’t use that as excuse to be irresponsible and obviously dumb 
  16. Debt sucks
  17. Have a good past, your name and reputation will never leave you in good or bad
  18. Exercise in ways you like consistently
  19. Laugh more 
  20. Write letters and cards to people, it’s nice 
  21. Curse words are more effective when you use them strategically 
  22. Before you say something negative about someone, take two seconds and think if they might be going through something 
  23. Don’t gaslight people, especially your loved ones and yourself
  24. Being a junkie of anything is probably dangerous
  25. God is great


About Michael He

Trying to get better every single day.