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Ever wondered if being positive all the time is actually bad for us? I know I have. And Susan Cain’s new book ‘Bittersweet’ is reaffirming that viewpoint. The book is about turning ‘sorrow into creativity, beauty and love,’ and there are two phrases that have stuck with me from the pages I’ve read so far. 1. ‘The tyranny of positivity’...

We have more access to stats, analytics, and data than ever. This is doing us more harm than good. We know how many people view or interact or engage with everything we post online. We then use that data to inform what we do next. At a business level, that may make sense (though, even there, I’m not so sure). But at the personal level,...

I read a post on Threads recently that instantly rang true. Hank Green said, ‘If I could give any advice to young people on social media it would be “share with your friends, not with the world.”’ He then added: ‘If you want to be someone who consistently makes content for the world, that is not a social experience, it’s a job.’ I agre...

I’ve deleted my Substack account – here’s why Long-term readers of my blog will perhaps be aware I have used Substack in the past to share my writing. I moved away from it earlier this year as it became too spammy for my liking. Any time someone wanted to subscribe to my writing, they suffered a barrage of other marketing that felt lik...

Yesterday, I shared my three top fiction books from 2023. Today I turn to the non-fiction books that struck a chord and have stayed with me this year. 3. WRITING FOR BUSY READERS by Todd Rogers and Jessica Lasky-Fink I try and read a book about writing every year. Or re-read a book. One of my all-time favourite books is ON WRITING WELL...

This is the first of two posts about the books I’ve read in 2023. Today, I am sharing my three favourite fictional books. Tomorrow, I will share my top three non-fiction books. Do let me know if you’ve enjoyed any of these yourself. And I’d love to hear what some of your favourite books have been this year. Let me know! 3. THE PARIS AP...

How a serendipitous moment triggered a 2024 goal I have a favourite app I like to use when I’m writing. It’s called iA Writer. I’m using it to write this now. Last week the makers announced the release of a new template. It is called Fountain and it is specifically for people writing screenplays in iA Writer. Curiosity led me to downlo...

I wonder how good any of us are at accurately judging just how much we don’t know. I mean, who of us likes to admit the limits to our knowledge or understanding? And yet, what if the better we are at being aware about what we don’t know, the better shot we’ll have at making a lasting success of our lives and organisations? No matter wh...

I came across a wonderful and provocative Bertrand Russell quote about the importance of boredom recently. Sarah Wilson highlighted it in her book ‘This One Wild and Precious Life’. “A generation that cannot endure boredom will be a generation…in whom every vital impulse slowly withers, as though they were cut flowers in a vase.” I’m s...

I’m reading ‘Writing for Busy People’ by Jessica Lasky-Fink and Todd Rogers at the moment. I recommend it if your life involves any amount of writing—whether texts, emails, documents, or even books. The paragraph below resonated in particular. “When you are balancing the trade-offs between readability and using longer, less common but ...

Living with someone who is long-term sick is hard. It’s not as hard as it is for the one struggling with illness, but it’s hard none-the-less. Over the last twelve years, my wife, Rachel, has struggled with various health conditions that have left her home-bound, unable to work for significant stints of time. Ranging from Graves’ disea...

Welcome to the weekend 😊 Here’s issue #9 of the things I’ve been listening to, watching, and reading lately. As always, do drop me a note with any of your recommendations. 📚 Big Swiss by Jen Beagin I don’t think I’ve ever read a novel quite like this! It an odd, unlikely premise, but somehow it works and, like all good novels, sheds li...

Hello 👋 It’s been a while. I went on holiday at the end of July and ended taking an extended summer break from my blog. It’s good to be back! How’s your summer been? (For those of you who are in parts of the world where it’s winter, feel free to share too!) You may also notice I’m back posting from HEY World rather than Substack. I rea...

Where does your mind go when your hear the word ‘love’? Is it to romance? To feelings? Or perhaps to passion? Maybe words like commitment, trust, attraction, or intimacy come to mind. There’s no right or wrong answer. Any conversation about what love is should only ever continue in the spirit of, ‘Yes, and…’. And in that spirit, I want...

I came across this wonderful, provocative quote a week or so ago by Dostoevsky, in his book, Notes from Underground: “Reason is an excellent thing, there's no disputing that, but reason is nothing but reason and satisfies only the rational side of man's nature, while will is a manifestation of the whole life, that is, of the whole huma...

One of my intentions for 2023 has been to exercise more. It took until April for me to make a start, but I got there. Warmer, lighter mornings made all the difference for me! Having made a start, I quickly got into a rhythm of doing HIIT workouts several mornings a week. Then, a week away on holiday in May, followed by various family i...

Early this year, I read a powerful article by Rebekah Toh on the courage to stop, and stop properly. Here’s what she wrote: “…it’s good to stop. Not just taking in less, but taking in none. Even one day of stopping works wonders for the soul. Three days are better. A week even better. …When we stop consuming so much new information and...

If I was to ask you, ‘Which is the most irrelevant of the Ten Commandments?’, which would you pick? I suspect that the second commandment might win any poll. Here’s what it says: ‘You shall not make for yourself an idol, whether in the form of anything that is in heaven above, or that is on the earth beneath, or that is in the water un...

Is it possible to change? Is transformation attainable? It’s tempting to want to be definitive in our answer. We are quick to default to dualistic, black or white thinking. We take sides; we’re either in the Yes or the No camp. But, like many things in life, the essence is found in the grey; in between the Yes or the No. There are plen...

We all ‘want it all’, right? At the very least, very few of us don’t want more. A bigger house. A better job. A fancier car. The latest smartphone. Nicer clothes. More glamorous holidays. That list may not be your more, but there’ll be something. And we convince ourselves that life will be better once we get that thing. We do this agai...

Who am I? It’s a question asked since the dawn of time. It’s a question every generation, every community, and every one of us wrestles with, both consciously and sub-consciously. Am I who my family says I am? Or my friends? Is it my community? Or maybe my boss or my colleagues? It’s hard to pretend that each of these people don’t have...

Being fully present to the people we’re with and the moment we’re in Most of us know by now that there’s no such thing as multi-tasking. We’re simply fast-switching between tasks, often in detrimental ways to our well-being and productivity. I sit at my desk, with two screens, multiple apps open, constantly switching from one to anothe...

I’ve been thinking about productivity a lot lately. Both worries about my lack of it, and my dislike of the term. Let’s start with the latter. ‘Productivity’ feels like such a cold, heartless, transactional word. As if I’m a cog in a wheel, existing solely to be efficient and generate output (for somebody else). There’s a ruthlessness ...

I’ve long passed on setting New Year’s resolutions. Though a fresh start and a line in the sand can give some momentum to making changes, it’s never enough. One year passing into the next, by itself, isn’t sufficient. Sure, there can be benefit in grabbing the psychological benefit of a clean slate and a kick start, but much more needs...

There is always more work I could be doing. I’m yet to come close to clearing my to do list. And there are some things I really should have done by now, but I haven’t. Why? Because work isn’t everything. Don’t misunderstand me, I enjoy my work. Well, mostly! But life is more than work. And long, unsustainable working hours is something...

What is your impact on others? Are the people you interact with better off from their being around you, or worse? Do you elevate the people you interact with, or bring them down? When you’re with others do they end up being more-than they would or could have been, or less-than? Are those around you energised or drained by your presenc...

“Progress is impossible without change; and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. – George Bernard Shaw” I came across this quote in the daily The World in Brief email I get from The Economist. I appreciated the reminder. Politicians have given changing your mind a bad reputation. The moment a political opponent c...

Adam Grant, in a recent newsletter wrote this: “Impostor syndrome: “I don’t know what I’m doing. It’s only a matter of time until everyone finds out." Growth mindset: “I don’t know what I’m doing yet. It’s only a matter of time until I figure it out.” The highest form of self-confidence is believing in your ability to learn.” As someon...

I listened to an episode of Brené Brown’s ‘Unlocking Us’ podcast last week where her guests were Drs. John and Julie Gottman. They have studied relationships for years, and their insights were fascinating. Though they were primarily talking in the context of couples, one thing they shared made so much sense to me across multiple contex...